Thursday 10 December 2009

Dangers of Gambling

Dangers of gambling

As we all know there are many negative effects of hazard. People can get addicted. Those who got into the hands of hazard lose all their money, savings and all of their possessions. When entering a casino we have to remember that from this moment our lives can change dramatically. If do not have strong will we may become gamblers very fast. It always starts with small bets and small money and we think we have everything under control, but before we realize that we are betting all of our savings or we have huge debts it is already to late. The more we lose the more we play, because we think we can win back what we lost already, but that usually backfires and we end up losing even more.

Gambling is like any other addiction. People stop controlling how much money they lose and how much time they spend playing. They stop caring about their families and friends. The only hope for them is therapy and make them realize how much trouble they are in. There are many portals and therapy groups for people addicted to gambling.

There are 4 phases when talking about gambling problems. First is the victory phase in which player is winging big bets what makes him want to play more and increase wagers. He plays occasionally and he is fantasizing about winning big money, he starts to believe that he will always win and in case of victory he wants to repeat it by betting big amounts all the time.

Then comes the second, which is quite obvious, losing phase. Player is still betting big which exposes him to big losses. Even if he wins occasionally he needs this money to pay off his debts. Gambler is playing at the expense of his work and family. He is lying and starts to hide his addiction still counting on big win.

Third phase of depression is when gambler loses his job and friends. He starts to panic because of his debts. Pressure from creditors pushes him to commit felonies.

At the end comes phase loss of hope. Feeling helpless and suicidal tendencies are appearing in this phase. There are 5 ways out of this: getaway, addiction to drugs or alcohol, jail, death, by his own hand or by his creditors, and finally call for help.

Here are twenty questions made by Gamblers Anonymous for anyone who feels they may have a gambling problem.

Twenty Questions

1.Did you ever lose time from work or school due to gambling?
2.Has gambling ever made your home life unhappy?
3.Did gambling affect your reputation?
4.Have you ever felt remorse after gambling?
5.Did you ever gamble to get money with which to pay debts or otherwise solve financial difficulties?
6.Did gambling cause a decrease in your ambition or efficiency? 7.After losing did you feel you must return as soon as possible and win back your losses?
8.After a win did you have a strong urge to return and win more?
9.Did you often gamble until your last dollar was gone?
10.Did you ever borrow to finance your gambling?
11.Have you ever sold anything to finance gambling?
12.Were you reluctant to use "gambling money" for normal expenditures?
13.Did gambling make you careless of the welfare of yourself or your family?
14.Did you ever gamble longer than you had planned?
15.Have you ever gambled to escape worry or trouble?
16.Have you ever committed, or considered committing, an illegal act to finance gambling?
17.Did gambling cause you to have difficulty in sleeping?
18.Do arguments, disappointments or frustrations create within you an urge to gamble?
19.Did you ever have an urge to celebrate any good fortune by a few hours of gambling?
20.Have you ever considered self destruction or suicide as a result of your gambling?

Most compulsive gamblers will answer yes to at least seven of these questions.

Here are some questions for you:

1. Would you play for money?

2. When you lose do you try to win your money back making huge bets?

3. Have you ever had any problems with gambling? If so, how did it affect your life?

15 comments:

  1. "Would you play for money?" yes, sometimes at online poker, sometimes on live in club, but only for low stakes (I treat poker like fun, not a way to bring more money)
    "When you lose do you try to win your money back making huge bets?" it depends on how much I have "free" money, I mean, I would never game for money that I need to "survive".
    "Have you ever had any problems with gambling? If so, how did it affect your life?" no.. not yet ;-)

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  2. Fortunately, I have never tried to lose my money playing cards or anything else. It is not for me, I even don't bet with people. There are some other things in people's lives which can make their pressure to be higher.

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  3. Unfortunately, I have so many situations and things that I spent my money so I haven't any more to put in gambling. Maybe that solution is better for me. No addictions, no temptations…
    Main skill to achieve is: saving money - monthly. If I deal with this positively than I would try gambling (possibly).

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  4. I would play for money only if I have some free cash to spent on entertainment. And I would be prepared for loosing it, so I wouldn't spent more.
    I played only with virtual money, so I can't say that I had any problems with gambling, but I was really annoyed when I lost a lot, and yes, I was trying to win it back.

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  5. Well, good players must be always prepared to possibility to loose and be able to stand up from table :)

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  6. I tried play for money in casino but I didn't enjoy it ... probably because 30zł I lost ;]
    2. Nope
    3. Nope, from time to time I play poker with friends. Its hard to call it gambling because we bet ~5 zł ;]

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  7. Once, during last Word Cup I was betting in online bet service - betway.com. It was first and the last time. Few first games I was careful, and I won some money, but after that I decided to bet all of my money on my account, because Sweden was playing with Trinidad and Tobago, so I was sure, that I do not even need luck. I was sure, that Sweden would won, but it was draw. After I saw the result of the game, I had almost got heart attack ;) So it was the last time...

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  8. Well, it's the main point of hazard, you will win some money, and you always want more...

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  9. 1. Would you play for money?
    Yes, on one-armed bandit - I have lost 20PLN and after that I have quit immediately.

    2. When you lose do you try to win your money back making huge bets?
    No, I know that ;)
    3. Have you ever had any problems with gambling? If so, how did it affect your life?
    No, as far as I remember.

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  10. 1. Would you play for money?
    - Sure!
    2. When you lose do you try to win your money back making huge bets?
    - No but i'm not sure. I've never made big bets and lost so that's why.
    3. Have you ever had any problems with gambling? If so, how did it affect your life?
    - Yes i had. I spent a lot lot of time playing Texas Hold'em poker only for virtual money :P. Wasted time...:(

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  11. At first I play for money but now I do it for my pleasure. What is worst I always try to get my money back. :] Sometimes I fell into debts but i've already reduced play.

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  12. 1) Yes, I play for money, but it's really small money and I play only poker. The main reason for doing this is that when people play for money (even very small amounts) they treat the game more serious, play more rational and don't do so many stupid thinks that make the game unplayable for other players
    2) No, because when I play with my friends or online it's just one game. When I win or lose it's the end for me.
    3) The only problem that I can think of is that sometimes the game lasts too long and I lose too much time ;)

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  13. 1. Would you play for money?

    Someday I'll play but now I don't want to lost money.

    2. When you lose do you try to win your money back making huge bets?
    3. Have you ever had any problems with gambling? If so, how did it affect your life?

    I've never had any problems with gambling and also I've never lost money that's way.

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  14. Gambling can be fun if you can control it. I definitely would and, in fact, I did play for money. However, you have to know you limit and you cannot try winning if you are out of luck. Common mistake that gamblers make is putting all the money down to win back. I have never had any problems with gambling, I have played sports betting for couple of years and if you get to know it, you can earn some extra money and have lots of fun.

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  15. 1) Yes!:) Sometimes we play with friends but not for a high stakes
    2) I never lose:)
    3) No

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